The Gift of Pure Presence
“Valour is the absolute courage and love of seeing the divine reflection within the face of another, no matter how unpleasant that other may
appear to be.” -Richard Rudd
Every human soul is born with immeasurable inherent worth and value. We each have infinite potential, spiritual gifts, and purpose in our lives.
Our attachment wounds, conditioning from our childhood, and neurological and biological wiring for survival will cause us to perceive anything/anyone different from us or our view of what is “right” as a threat, resulting in pushing one another away causing DISCONNECTION from others.
Our ability to accept, appreciate, and create an openness to learning from another human being starts with embracing all aspects of ourselves with compassion, non-judgment, and an understanding that we are a work in progress.
Any attempts at showing up fully without this self-discovery and introspection lack depth and real authenticity, and block our ability to truly be purely present to another human being.
To connect to others, you must be connected to your True Self. To see the light and value in others, you must know the light and value within yourself.
The Hidden Truth:
Our Human Default Setting . . .
(Survival-Based Human Nature + Social Conditioning
+ Residue From Our Painful Experiences)
Causes disconnection and division, and will
prevent us from having deeply fulfilling relationships
unless we override this default setting.
What if you knew how to discover the priceless wisdom within every soul surrounding you in your life regardless of how similar or dissimilar they are to you?
What if you knew how to listen to others in a way that caused you to get outside of your perspective to find the wisdom in a differing view and expanded your understanding?
What if you knew how to be powerfully present with another human being in a way that left them feeling deeply seen and valued and unlocked their creativity and access to the light/strength/power/healing/Divinity within themself?
What if you knew how to move through breakdowns in any relationship powerfully so that the challenge strengthened your connection?
What if in a committed relationship you and your partner knew how to be a safe place emotionally for each other?
What if when your partner told you they love you- you could feel it deeply because you knew they intimately saw and truly knew you?
What if the differences between you and your partner expanded one another and you powerfully co-created solutions that honored each of your perspectives?
What if your relationship did not have to end once it got uncomfortable/difficult/stale because you had the tools to lean into the discomfort, choose expansion, and re-invent your relationship?
Thanks to neuroplasticity, and the ability to channel physiological responses, we can create new neural pathways, regulate our central nervous system, and assign new meanings to what is new, different, or unknown.
Our Human Default Setting can be transformed, and a new skill-set can be developed which creates a shedding of our conditioning and
enables operating from a higher level of consciousness.
Transforming Your Intimate Relationships Will:
Shedunhealthy relationship patterns you have been trapped in as you discover safety within- no longer needing walls to protect your heart, or looking for relationships to fill a void, emptiness, loneliness, give you a purpose, or to rescue you.
Teach you how to turn the fire of adversity into a refiner’s fire revealing purpose in your suffering.
Liberate you from the shackles caused by the pain of your past resulting in a new level of personal ownership of your life.
Melt the ice around your heart, allowing you to feel again- the highs that are inaccessible while numbed out, and the lows in a way that allows you to be expanded by the emotion rather than being a victim to it.
Awaken your passion and deeper sense of purpose to your life.
Unlock your unique spiritual gifts and therefore catalyze your ability to deepen your intentional and distinct impact on the world.
Remind you of the light, strength, power, healing, and Divinity within you, and magnify your ability to connect to Higher Powers.
Ingrain in you an ability to deeply see what others cannot or do not want to see: the pain in others, without the fear of not knowing how to help.
Endow you with a sacred ability to deeply empathize with others- being able to meet them in their suffering and feel with them (without being triggered or swept away in your own pain) in a way that your presence honors the purpose of their suffering and becomes a mirror to their greatness- intrinsically reminding them who they truly are.
Empower you with the ability to become powerfully and intentionally present for others in a way that leaves them feeling deeply seen, understood, and valued by you.
Cause you to embrace expansion-valuing differences in others as essential for personal growth, and move from reactivity due to human nature to intentionality.
Transform your leadership as you harness the power of getting outside of your own perspective and into that of another’s to find the value in a differing viewpoint, choose to be expanded by it, and develop the ability to co-create solutions that would have not otherwise been possible.
Other Aspects Of The Journey:
The process of
REMEMBERING WHO WE ARE
at a soul level
changes the trajectory of our lives as we access a
greater ability to LOVE RESILIENTLY.
We are able to access our own internal guidance system and achieve a level of freedom and peace the world cannot offer from within ourselves.
We connect to our unique gifts, a higher purpose, and dramatically shift the way we show up in our relationships.
Remembering Our Divine Identity
The Art of Co-Creation
Once we are deeply grounded in our higher nature, and allow ourselves to be expanded by the wisdom found in differing views, we gain a powerful ability to partner
intellect with intuition and
CO-CREATE INSPIRED SOLUTIONS.
We become leaders who know how to draw upon the
magic of our collective gifts, harmonize polarities, and
It is through these co-creative abilities that we will amplify the ripple effect of our Legacies and unify our homes, communities, organizations, and the world.